otrdiena, 2019. gada 16. aprīlis

Grāmata Vakariņas (autors Hermans Kohs)

Jebkura ēdienreize ir diezgan intīms process un rituāls, jo es tam piešķiru dalīšanās un piepildījuma nozīmi... dažādos kontekstos. Piemēram, ja vakariņojam kopā ar kādu, tad veltām tam cilvēkam savu laiku un uzmanību. Ja gatavojam ēdienu kādam, tad dalāmies ar savu enerģiju, ieguldot darbu pagatavošanas un pasniegšanas procesā. Tā ir sava veida enerģijas apmaiņa. Sākot lasīt Hermana Koha grāmatu, iedomājos, ka tā būs par cilvēka ikdienišķu ēdienreizes rituālu, kas pārvērtīsies par nozīmīgu notikumu vakariņu dalībniekiem.
Lielā mērā rakstniekam izdevās pievērst manu uzmanību galvenā varoņa iekšējiem pārdzīvojumiem, nīderlandiešu mentalitātei, sabiedrības priekšstatiem par morāli, bērnu audzināšanas jautājumiem, atklātībai starp cilvēkiem un līdzās pastāvēšanai.
Galvenā esence, ko spēju izvilkt no savām pārdomām, ir saistīta tieši ar savstarpējo atklātību un godīgumu. Kur ir robeža -  starp - dzīvot savu dzīvi, kā vēlos, un rēķināties ar līdzcilvēku. Mūsdienās cilvēkiem ir vēlme pēc neaizskaramības, individualitātes un savu robežu sargāšanas un vienlaicīgi mēs alkstam būt pamanāmi, iekļaujami, ievēroti un saprasti.
Man nosaukums "Vakariņas" velk pavedienu nevis uz vakariņām, kas notika restorānā, bet uz vakariņām, ko galvenais varonis Pauls pirms vairākiem gadiem bija sagatavojis mājās. Kopā ar dēlu Mišelu viņš grasījās apsēsties pie TV ekrāna, noskatīties ikvakara sporta ziņas un apēst lieliski pagatavotus makaronus alla carbonara . Bet īsu mirkli pirms tam ieradās viņa brālis Seržs ar sievu, lai pārbaudītu, vai viņš tiek galā ar saviem pienākumiem, kamēr sieva ir slimnīcā. Šī epizode izcili atklāj Paula iekšējos pārdzīvojumus un dusmas par šī rituāla izjaukšanu.
Grāmatā pārsteidzoši smalki caurvijas cilvēka instiktīvās reakcijas uz savas, savu bērnu, teritorijas drošības sargāšanu. Slēptā un atklātā agresija ir galvenais ierocis, neskatoties, ka vakariņu rituāls notiek smalkākajā restorānā.

9 komentāri:

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  8. I want to let the world know about Doctor Osasu the Great spell caster that brought back my husband to me when i thought all hope was lost. Doctor Osasu used his powerful spell to put a smile on my face by bringing back my man with his spell, at first i thought i was dreaming when my husband came back to me on his knees begging me to forgive him and accept him back and even since then he loves me more than i ever expected so i made a vow to my self the i will let the World know about Doctor Osasu because he is a God on earth. Do you have problems in your relationship ? have your partner broke up with you and you still love and want him back ? Do you have problem with your finance ? or do you need help of any kind then contact Doctor Osasu today for i give you 100% guarantee that he will help you just as he helped me. Doctor Osasu email is: drosasu25@gmail.com or add him on whasapp +2347064365391

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