otrdiena, 2019. gada 16. aprīlis

Grāmata Vakariņas (autors Hermans Kohs)

Jebkura ēdienreize ir diezgan intīms process un rituāls, jo es tam piešķiru dalīšanās un piepildījuma nozīmi... dažādos kontekstos. Piemēram, ja vakariņojam kopā ar kādu, tad veltām tam cilvēkam savu laiku un uzmanību. Ja gatavojam ēdienu kādam, tad dalāmies ar savu enerģiju, ieguldot darbu pagatavošanas un pasniegšanas procesā. Tā ir sava veida enerģijas apmaiņa. Sākot lasīt Hermana Koha grāmatu, iedomājos, ka tā būs par cilvēka ikdienišķu ēdienreizes rituālu, kas pārvērtīsies par nozīmīgu notikumu vakariņu dalībniekiem.
Lielā mērā rakstniekam izdevās pievērst manu uzmanību galvenā varoņa iekšējiem pārdzīvojumiem, nīderlandiešu mentalitātei, sabiedrības priekšstatiem par morāli, bērnu audzināšanas jautājumiem, atklātībai starp cilvēkiem un līdzās pastāvēšanai.
Galvenā esence, ko spēju izvilkt no savām pārdomām, ir saistīta tieši ar savstarpējo atklātību un godīgumu. Kur ir robeža -  starp - dzīvot savu dzīvi, kā vēlos, un rēķināties ar līdzcilvēku. Mūsdienās cilvēkiem ir vēlme pēc neaizskaramības, individualitātes un savu robežu sargāšanas un vienlaicīgi mēs alkstam būt pamanāmi, iekļaujami, ievēroti un saprasti.
Man nosaukums "Vakariņas" velk pavedienu nevis uz vakariņām, kas notika restorānā, bet uz vakariņām, ko galvenais varonis Pauls pirms vairākiem gadiem bija sagatavojis mājās. Kopā ar dēlu Mišelu viņš grasījās apsēsties pie TV ekrāna, noskatīties ikvakara sporta ziņas un apēst lieliski pagatavotus makaronus alla carbonara . Bet īsu mirkli pirms tam ieradās viņa brālis Seržs ar sievu, lai pārbaudītu, vai viņš tiek galā ar saviem pienākumiem, kamēr sieva ir slimnīcā. Šī epizode izcili atklāj Paula iekšējos pārdzīvojumus un dusmas par šī rituāla izjaukšanu.
Grāmatā pārsteidzoši smalki caurvijas cilvēka instiktīvās reakcijas uz savas, savu bērnu, teritorijas drošības sargāšanu. Slēptā un atklātā agresija ir galvenais ierocis, neskatoties, ka vakariņu rituāls notiek smalkākajā restorānā.

18 comments:

  1. Es vēlos dalīties ar savu brīnišķīgo liecību par to, kā es atgriezu savu vīru no manas dzīves, es vēlos pateikt cilvēkiem pasaulē, ka tiešsaistē ir īsta pareizrakstības ritma, un tā ir spēcīga un patiesa, Viņa vārds ir Baba Wale Wiseman, viņš palīdzēja es nesen atkal apvienoju savas attiecības ar manu vīru, kurš mani izgāja, kad es sazinājos ar Vissemanu, viņš man un manam vīram nodeva mīlestības burvestību, kurš teica, ka viņam nav nekāda sakara ar mani, kas mani sauc, un sāka mani lūgt. Ikvienam, kas lasa šo rakstu un kam nepieciešama palīdzība, Wiseman var piedāvāt arī jebkāda veida palīdzību, piemēram, laulības un attiecību atjaunošana, visu veidu slimību ārstēšana, tiesas lietas, grūtniecības burvestība, tagad mēs esam ļoti apmierināti ar mūsu pašu. Wiseman liek viņam saprast, cik daudz mēs mīlam un vajag viens otru. Šis cilvēks ir īsts un labs. Man bija vīrs atpakaļ! Tas bija kā brīnums! Nav mīlestības laulībā un mēs ļoti labi darām, mūsu mīlestības dzīvē. Sazinieties ar šo lielo cilvēku, ja jums ir kādas problēmas ar ilgstošu risinājumu
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  5. U S A, i am 38 years old i got married at the age of 25 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don't really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream's of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail, i cry and cry seeking for help, i discussed it with my best friend Allix and she promise to help me. She told me of a man called DR michael she told me he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot solve and she told me how he has help countless number of people in restoring their relationship. I was really convince, I quickly contacted his email address at drmichaelspellcaster@gmail.com . I explain all my problem to him, he told me that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3 days my husband will come back to me and start begging, and it really happen as he said, i was very surprise, this is so amazing. To God be the glory our relationship is now very tight and we both live happily again. If you having similar problem, Contact him now(drmichaelspellcaster@gmail.com) and get your problem solve once and for all. i am a living testimony to it.
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  6. BE CAREFUL HERE NOBODY CAN HELP YOU HERE OR EVEN SUGGEST HOW YOU CAN GET YOUR EX OR LOVE BACK,ANY TESTIMONIES OF MOST SPELL CASTER HERE MUST BE IGNORE.BECAUSE MOST OF THEM ARE SCAM I MEAN REAL SCAM WHICH I WAS A VICTIM AND I GOT RIPPED OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS BECAUSE I WAS SO ANXIOUS TO GET MY WIFE BACK AFTER SHE LEFT ME FOR OVER 2 YEARS WITH MY 7 YEARS OLD SON JERRY,I HAVE APPLIED TO 7 DIFFERENT SPELL CASTER HERE AND ALL TO NO AVAIL THEY ALL ASK FOR SAME THING SEND YOUR NAME YOUR EX NAME ADDRESS AND PICTURE PHONE NUMBER ETC WHICH I DID OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND MOST OF THEM WERE FROM WEST AFRICA UNTIL I SAW A POST ABOUT MRS OKOJIE SPELL AND I DECIDED TO GAVE HER MY LAST TRAIL.SHE ASK ME FOUR THINGS MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND $380 AND SAID MY EX WILL COME BACK IN 24HOURS, I HAVE PAID OVER $3000 ON SPELL CASTING AND COURIER AND NOTHING HAVE WORK FOR ME AFTER 3 DAYS I WAS THINKING ABOUT HOW MUCH I HAVE LOST SO FAR SO I SAID LET ME GIVE HER A TRY SO I CALLED HER AGAIN AND SEND MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND THE $380 BECAUSE I SWEAR IT WAS MY LAST TRY SO I WAS WAITING AS SHE TOLD ME TO WAIT TILL NEXT DAY AND I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I REALLY LOVE MY WIFE AND WANT HER BACK AT 9PMTHAT DAY I SAW MY WIFE ON LINE ON FACE BOOK AND SHE SAID HI AT FIRST I WAS SHOCK BECAUSE SHE NEVER TALK WITH ME FOR THE PAST A YEAR AND 9 MONTH NOW I DID NOT REPLY AGAIN SHE SAID ARE YOU THERE? I QUICKLY REPLY YES AND SHE SAID CAN WE SEE TOMORROW I SAID YES AND SHE WENT OFF-LINE I WAS CONFUSED I TRY TO CHAT HER AGAIN BUT SHE WAS NO MORE ON LINE I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT AS I WAS WONDERING WHAT SHE IS GOING TO SAY, BY 7.AM THE NEXT MORNING SHE GAVE ME A MISS CALL I DECIDED NOT TO CALL BACK AS I WAS STILL ON SHOCK AGAIN SHE CALL AND I PICK SHE SAID CAN WE SEE AFTER WORK TODAY I SAID YES SO SHE END THE CALL IMMEDIATELY I GOT OFF WORK SHE CALL ME AND WE MEET AND NOW WE ARE BACK AGAIN I CALL MAMA ANITA THE NEXT DAY THANKING HER FOR WHAT SHE HAS DONE IN FACT I STILL CALL HER AND THANK HER AS MY LIFE WAS NOT COMPLETE WITHOUT MY WIFE PLEASE BE CAREFUL HERE I HAVE BEEN SCAM THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS IF YOU WANT A TRUE LOVE SPELL THEN CONTACT MRS OKOJIE (mrsokojiehealinghomeforall@gmail.com) or (magic.lovespel@reincarnate.com)

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  8. I want to let the world know about Doctor Osasu the Great spell caster that brought back my husband to me when i thought all hope was lost. Doctor Osasu used his powerful spell to put a smile on my face by bringing back my man with his spell, at first i thought i was dreaming when my husband came back to me on his knees begging me to forgive him and accept him back and even since then he loves me more than i ever expected so i made a vow to my self the i will let the World know about Doctor Osasu because he is a God on earth. Do you have problems in your relationship ? have your partner broke up with you and you still love and want him back ? Do you have problem with your finance ? or do you need help of any kind then contact Doctor Osasu today for i give you 100% guarantee that he will help you just as he helped me. Doctor Osasu email is: drosasu25@gmail.com or add him on whasapp +2347064365391

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  12. Hello I'm Gladness buff by name, I'm giving a testimony about Dr. Emmanuel the great Herbalist, he has the cure to all manner of diseases, he cured my Herpes virus, though I went through different website I saw different testimonies about different spell casters and herbalist, I was like: 'Many people have the Herpes Virus cure why are people still suffering from it?' I though of it, then I contact Dr. Emmanuel via email, I didn't believe him that much, I just wanted to give him a try, he replied my mail and Needed some Information about me, then I sent them to him, he prepared it (CURE) and sent it to Airfreight Online Courier Service for delivery, he gave my details to the Courier Office, they told me that 3-5 days I will receive the package and i took the medicine as prescribed by him and I went for check-up 2 weeks after finishing the medicine, I was tested Herpes Virus negative, if you are Herpes Virus positive do me a favor for you to contact him and I will try my possible best to make sure you get cured, when you contact him, make sure you tell him that I referenced you.. contact him via: nativehealthclinic@gmail.com or WhatsApp/Call him +2348140073965
     he have cure to HIV/AIDS,diabetes,cancer,copd,hepatitis,hpv etc//..

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  14. My name is Ryan am from U.S.A. I want to share a testimony of how Dr. DADA  herbal mixture cream saves me from shame and disgrace, my penis was a big problem to me as the size was really so embarrassing,and i was also having weak erection problem. I can't make love to my wife and my penis was just too small a full grown man like me having 4 inches penis and to worsen it i don't last in sex i cant even last two minutes it was really a thing of shame to me. My wife was really tired of me because my sex life was very poor,she never enjoyed sex,i was always thinking and searching for solutions everywhere until when i saw a testimony of how Dr.DADA herbal mixture cream have been helping people regarding their sex life, so i decided to give him a try and to my greatest surprise in less than one week of taking the herbs my penis grow to 8 inches i couldn't believe my eyes and as i speak now my penis is inced 8 es and i do not have week erection again. I can make love to my wife longer in bed. And my marriage is now stable,my wife now enjoy me very well in bed. You can contact him via {drdadaspellhome7@gmail.com) or call him or what-apps him through +2348158568638 .he also specialize on the following things
    BREAST ENLARGEMENT
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    GENERAL BODY SLIMMING
    HIPS & THIGH REDUCTION
    Thanks for the Enlarging my penis sir, you indeed save my marriage...I am really grateful sir,..,,

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